YOUR LIFE AND YOUR RESPONSIBILITY - OLUWAFUNMITO OJO

Life comes with choices and opportunities that once you miss them, they may never be gotten back even if you cry all day. However, you can still set good goals and reach your mark.

Understandably, life seems not to be balance and when you think of achieving your goals or the choices you made, you sometimes realize that there is a set back or an obstacle in fulfilling it and you get discouraged. Those obstacle and set back can however be termed LIMITATION.

So my dear readers, let us look into what is called limitation.

Limitation is an act of being restricted from moving forward. Limitations has made people to be more fustrated about life and has led to the end of some people's life due to dissatisfaction.

Starting here, few causes of limitations are;
👉Self-imposed limitation
👉Voluntary imposed limitation

Self-imposed limitation

Limitation that is cause by one self i.e cause personally.
Let me briefly say that ignorance can really stop someone from growing and when there is no growth, there is a limitation. Also, not having knowledge about something, not being able to apply the knowledge one has can cause limitations.
Therefore, self imposed limitation can leads to low self esteem, lack of confidence, lack of courage and these can cause limitation.
As a case study, I met a lady few years back who was looking for admission but couldn't meet up with the JAMB cut-off mark and then she was confused. I met her in that state and I engaged her in a conversation but then I discern that there are so many things she doesn't know about gaining admission into the university in Nigeria. In the long run, she made an option of going through part-time degree rather than sitting down downcasted and not making progress. I then told her rules and regulations about part-time degree and then things became clearer to her.
From her example, you will understand that the lady was limited because of what she doesn't know which is called ignorance. This is a self-imposed limitation.

Voluntary impose limitation This kind of limitation can be caused by unforseen occurrence which is uncontrollable.

OVERCOMING LIMITATIONS
Firstly, deal with it spiritually as prayer is adequately needed
Secondly, obedience to God's word is important.
Develop the habit of investing in yourself by adding values,
Develop the habit of love and care,
Seek knowledge from people who have already overcome similar obstacle and seek directions from them,
Be strong, have a heart of a solider, believe in yourself Never give up, always think about your goals and your final destination,
Whenever you become weary, remember the goals you have set and where you are heading to,
Remain optimistic "stay alive because as long as there is life, there is hope",
Be careful and watchful, take responsibility!
In all challenges, work with integrity because all will soon pass. The way you really manage the situation will tell in time to come,
Do not spoil to your tomorrow because of obstacles!

On this fine note, never give up on yourself, always remember you are stronger than what is pulling you down or what you are going through.
Life is meant to give challenges but how will you come out my dear? Victory at the end, because there is light at the end of the tunnel! 
Take care of yourself
We will overcome, yes we will!

Keep Fighting💪

Written by

Oluwafunmito Ojo

Phone number:08148462280
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