Destiny/ Fate/Coincidence - Bello K. Sofiyat

Everyone, one day or another, sooner or later, asks questions like these!
    
Who was i born to be?    
What is it I came here to do?    
What is my purpose on this planet?
What does fate have in store for me?

And lets face it, none of us wants to miss it,
If there is a grand reason for our being love, it would be a major srew up if we bitterly danced through life without seeking the answer to this burning questions:
Fate and destiny are two completely different things. Coincidence is The Truth that ‘wants’ you to hear it.

Fate is a lack of fulfillment. We engineer a fate by making such plans and provisions for our lives that destiny no longer gets a look-in. (those forks in the road are chosen ahead of time). It is a death cold and hard. It is achieved primarily by a pursuit of happiness which cannot be satisfied no matter the material gains you amass.

Destiny has a destination. That destination is joining with your ‘Truth’. The Truth always exists outside of time. Destiny is ‘filled’ not shaped. Fulfillment is the key. Do what your ‘Truth’ urges you to do. The Truth (destiny) is joined. Fate can be changed but once you start disposing of earlier plans and provisions that have nailed you down, you must never engineer them back into your life. There is no problem making a mistake in the forks of the road ahead. Destiny will keep providing you with another fork. Imagine that a new way is open ed for you to ‘fix’ your fate. That fork may be more ‘difficult’ to take, it may mean accepting the loss of something material that you value. Or a friendship or connection. Just don’t go back and try to fix anything. It’s done. The moment you take the correct fork, those fateful decisions are ‘forgiven’ by destiny and it does not expect you to re-visit them). Consider Orpheus rescuing Eurydice from Hades, he looked back to see if she was really there. It condemned her and him. This is that story. As I will suggest later, this IS Hades. Your journey here is to get back to ‘The Life’. Fail and you will go to hell. Which is where you are right now! Thus ‘re-incarnation’. Unfortunately you will have no memory of where you went wrong.

Discovering Your Destiny in Three (easy) Steps:

1. Accept the Easy Part First

Your destiny can be divided into two parts:

a. Overall Destiny
b. Your Personal Destiny

You see—every human being comes to this planet for one specific reason above and beyond anything else—it is what we were born to do. Everyone’s destiny is to create a life they love. So that is your number one, first and foremost priority.

Wait a minute—that seems selfish. What about the starving children? The wars? Homeless people? Global warming?

What about them? You cannot help them until you help yourself. Your empowerment must begin with your own life. Living in joy, creating success, loving your life…is your destiny—your soul’s dream for you.

So step one is to get cracking on a glorious wonderful dream and then learn how to consciously create that dream. Next…

2. Follow Your Excitement

Your destiny isn’t “out there” it’s “in you”. It is what you are best suited for, what you have the ability to be absolute genius at, and what will bring you more joy (and money, should you allow it) than anything else on the planet.

And the way to uncover your destiny is by doing what excites you every minute you possibly can.

I’m not excited about anything…my life sucks.

Then start where you are. Accept your life sucks. Now, of all the sucky things you could do right now, what is most exciting? Give yourself the time and space to mentally list them.

Well, I could walk the dog, do the dishes, clean the toilets, watch TV, check my Facebook page, get a snack, or call my friend…

Good! Now try those things on…imagine them, one at a time. Which one is more exciting than the others? Do that.

And, when you are finished, ask yourself again, “What would be the most exciting thing to do right now?”

By consciously choosing the most exciting thing at every given moment you are:

a. Loving yourself by prioritizing an enjoyable life
b. Drawing more exciting things to you by focusing on the exciting things
c. Giving yourself the freedom to allow your interests, talents and strengths to come to the surface

OK, but what does this have to do with my destiny?

You were born to be the most authentic and whole version of “you” that you could possibly be. And the more you do that, the more you will be utilizing your talents, strengths and unique gifts to the very best of your ability, the more you will be loving life, the more you will be following your excitement every minute, and the more you will be creating a dream come true.

And the cool part about that is, there is no greater gift you could give anyone around you! You will be gifting your presence, your example, and your light to everything and everyone on this planet. THAT is your soul’s dream for you—THAT is your destiny.

But there is one more thing you will need to do to pull this off…

3. Change the Beliefs that Keep You Stuck

It’s one thing to read these words and hope you can discover your destiny. It’s another to actually do it. Why the disconnect? Because some part of you won’t believe it is do-able. And you’ll stop yourself before you even get started. Or you’ll become disillusioned, disappointed and depressed that it didn’t turn out like you’d hoped.

So ask yourself another question: When you read about discovering your destiny, what comes up for you? Here are some common responses:

THIS TOPIC IS ENDLESS: because no one knows what fate have in store for him/her.
 
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Bello.k.sofiat