IS HEARTBREAK THE END OF THE WORLD? - BELLO K SOFIYAT

 

     Capital No!, It is not, To the person going through a breakup, I want you to know that it’s not the end of the world – it’s the beginning of a new one.

I remembered When a friend explained to me about her heart-break she felt like the life was over for her.

There are no two ways around it, heartbreak sucks. That numb ache in your stomach, feeling like you’re going to throw up, goings back and forth between feeling nothing at all and being unable to stop crying, but if you continue with this it will not lead you anywhere, instead, I told her to pick herself up and start a new beginning, anything that remind her of him, I tried to let her get rid of it, She become stronger, After my long Conversation of advise to her and she listened and work on herself gradually...in case you don't know, heart break create room for better people in your heart, you be able to focus on your dream, if the jerk realize you're down because of him/her, he/she will feel important, just let go,. The person who broke your heart isn’t lying on the kitchen floor crying because you won’t return their phone call. They aren’t going through all of the intricate details of what happened with their friends constantly trying to figure out where it went wrong. Their life hasn’t stopped because you're not in it, and neither should yours.

        Choose to believe that there is a reason for your pain. Trust in that pain. More importantly, be grateful for the pain. The empty feeling you're left with is only temporary. Be thankful that you were given an opportunity to fully invest yourself in someone else and to find out what it truly means to care about someone in such an intimate way. You experienced true happiness and loved without limits, that alone makes you so brave.

Yes, I know what I said. Yes, I know that you think you will never find someone else exactly like that person, someone to do what he/she is doing, but that not true, you only feeling that way because you've not given room for a better person, have fun dear, bring out the smile in you, the happiness in you, what is yours will not slip through your hands.

Let me tell you 4/5 reason why heart break is not the end of the world.

    The sun still shines.

Life isn’t ending. Every day you wake up and there is a new day with new people waiting for you to have new experiences. The sun still rises and the sun still sets, life isn’t over and you can’t keep acting like it is. Trust me, life has just begun.

There are 7 billion people in the world.

You’re going to let ONE ruin your day? Ruin your mood? There are too many different people in this world who can change your life in so many different positive ways to let one negative, sad excuse for a soul disrupt how much you enjoy everyday life.

   

    He/she isn’t worth it.

No man/woman should ever make you sad. Yeah, they make you angry, they disappoint you, they confuse you but none should ever make you sad. And men/women who do? Really aren’t worth it. He fooled you, he played you like a fiddle but it’s his/her loss. Just think about all the men/women out there waiting to make you happy instead. This stupid one is definitely not worth it.

   He/she is a jerk.

If you’re not worth his/her time, why should he even be worth your thoughts? Face it, if he “doesn’t know” if he wants you, he/she probably got another girl/guy wrapped around him/her helping him/her figure it out or he/she is just making sure you don’t move on first. People go after what they want.

In conclusion, I will urge you to let him/her go, the person that break heart of a beautiful lady or handsome guy like you, doesn't deserve it, stand up, and do whatever makes you happy, take good care of yourself, am saying it again, “HEART BREAK IS NOT THE END OF THE WORLD.

                  

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Bello.k.sofiat